R.E.A.L love
Have been watching Accidental Husband, I thought it was just a mushy chick flick. It’s a life lesson. In it there is a woman who is getting married to the guy she thinks she loves. But of course, there is another guy she also loves. The message in it is that you can’t always predict love. However the message I see, is don’t stay with someone because you are afraid of being alone. Or afraid of hurting them. Thats what I was doing, for far too long. I didn’t want to hurt Dan, I didn’t want to be alone because I didn’t know how to be. But I realise I was more alone with him than I ever could have been without him. And then my other guy came along. Well he came along very early. I just never realised it. I liked him, for a very long time. But all I could see was Dan, all I could see was Paris my friend. Until about a year and a half ago. So this is where the main message of the movie comes in. Even though the world seems against it, you have to go for it. Go for the one you love. So I did. And it’s been almost a year. It’s been hard but hell, I’ve always been tenacious. I have to wish the best of luck to my girlies and their other halves. Not that they need it. Cookie had finally found someone who works through he commitment issues and Pigeon has found someone who will be the rock she needs. I’m so pleased both of them have found happiness, it’s just a shame all of us had to sift through the crap to find them, I know that if our exs hadn’t been such nobs none of us would have half the emotional issues we have today. And I know its the same for the guys, but at the end of the day, its something that will bring you closer. The feeling that you can help the person you care about. It’s just a shame it had to damage in the first place.
